By drriehl Posted in Workbook Articles Tagged keep in touchletterletter writingmailsomeone specialwrite Write a Letter to Someone Special When was the last time that you took the time to write a letter to someone special? Today we usually text or email someone or we use a social media platform to send a message to a larger group of people.
All her trust is gone, so thinks evil of his motives. She believes him to be self-centered and unloving because of the way he has neglected or treated her. The only thing a man can do to restore trust is to express empathy and compassion for her wounded condition, which is done through relating to her like he would with a woman he just ran over in his truck.
Trust will not be restored if he explains things about himself and why he did what he did. Trust will not be restored if he apologizes over and over, and promises to change.
And trust will not be restored if he makes declarations of the depth of his love and shows it through some kind of romantic gesture. Make certain that your letter is not mostly about you and your thoughts, rather make it about her broken heart, followed up by how you broke it.
I strongly recommend that you send the letter to me for review before you give it to your wife.
Every man I have spoken with, who has sent it without having it reviewed first, regretted it. There are always blind spots in communication that ultimately offend a woman. Speaking to a hardened heart It is no simple matter to write a letter to someone who is so embittered that they misinterpret everything you say.
He has lost all her trust, so she is ready to think the worst of his motives. Therefore, he must be careful of how he phrases sincere apologies, promises of repentance, professions of love, or even compliments.
Anything he says will often be interpreted as evidence of his self-centeredness. Because of this, any communication must be carefully written or spoken.
If you desire help with crafting the best letter for your wife, I am available to help. Below I have provided some guidelines for writing a letter and if you would like counseling click on the Counseling link in the left sidebar.
On Guideline 10 below, I have provided some paragraphs as examples of how to write a letter. Believe me — those paragraphs are critical. Because a wounded woman is so sensitive, I would not recommend giving her a letter without first having it reviewed. Please understand that you are not purchasing help with your donation -- the donation is because you have already found help.
The letter reviewing is my way of saying thank you to Ultimate Husband supporters. Whether or not you intend to give your letter to your wife or simply use it as basis for conversation, writing a letter and having it reviewed is an exercise that can teach you a great deal about her.
A letter reveals to the counselor your blind spots regarding how you see yourself and your wife, and helps you refine your communication skills with her.
Here are some guidelines to keep in mind. The goals of a proper letter:When was the last time that you took the time to write a letter to someone special? Today we usually text or email someone or we use a social media platform to send a message to a larger group of people.
Does the idea of expressing your feelings to someone you care for make you feel nervous and tongue-tied? Writing a letter of love gives you the chance to take your time and use the right words to express your admiration and appreciation for your nearest and dearest.
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